if I can't have you Shawn Mendes
You are somber, somewhat shortsighted and informal.
You are modest: you are uncomfortable being the center of attention. You are emotionally aware: you are aware of your feelings and how to express them. And you are melancholy: you think quite often about the things you are unhappy about.
Your choices are driven by a desire for modernity.
You consider helping others to guide a large part of what you do: you think it is important to take care of the people around you. You don't find tradition to be particularly motivating for you: you care more about making your own path than following what others have done.